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In a small town, you are someone’s neighbor, someone’s son, someone’s high school mistake. You are defined by your history. Big City-s Pleasures
In the big city, you are no one. And that is a beautiful thing. If you’d like this expanded into a longer
There is a unique pleasure in the anonymity of a crowd. You can sit in a coffee shop with your laptop, dressed in whatever you want, blasting whatever music you choose, and nobody cares. You are free from the judgment of people who have known you for twenty years. In the city, you can reinvent yourself every single morning. You can be the main character in a movie that only you are watching. In the big city, you are no one
Jane Jacobs, the great urbanist, called this the "ballet of the sidewalk." The big city offers a continuous, live, unscripted theater. The pleasure here is voyeurism in the kindest sense.
There is the old man who walks three tiny, fluffy dogs dressed in sweaters every day at 5 PM. There is the breakdancing crew battling outside the bank that closed at 4 PM. There is the couple having a silent, furious argument in mime through a restaurant window. There is the sudden, spontaneous block party when someone drags a speaker out onto the stoop.
In a car-centric suburb, you see bumpers. In the country, you see deer. In the city, you see humanity in all its ridiculous glory. You sit on a bench, coffee in hand, and watch the parade. You laugh at a toddler having a meltdown over a pigeon. You feel a kinship with the saxophone player busking on the corner. You are not just living your life; you are watching a million other lives intersect with yours. That complexity is the city’s greatest show.