Not everyone agrees with the Perfect 70. A rival faction promotes the "Lucky 21" (younger SDs with lower budget but higher social capital). They argue the Perfect 70 is a "midlife crisis optimization spreadsheet."
One high-karma user wrote:
"Chasing the 70 is for men who want to turn a relationship into a KPI. Real entertainment is chaos. The moment you calibrate to 70 decibels, you've lost the plot." the candid forum perfect ass 70 sd hot
The forum defines the Perfect 70 as the "Goldilocks Zone" of sugar dating. To score a 70/100, an SD must balance three pillars:
| Pillar | Weight | Description | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | Liquidity (L-70) | 40% | Disposable monthly income dedicated to lifestyle (not allowance). Must equal exactly $7,000 - $10,000 USD. | | Availability (A-70) | 30% | The SD travels 70% of the month but is 100% available digitally. (Avoids "clinger" status but provides stability). | | Experience (E-70) | 30% | The ability to book "impossible" reservations (e.g., Dorsia, Nobu Malibu, or Osteria Francescana) with 70 hours notice. | Not everyone agrees with the Perfect 70
Why 70? The forum argues that scores below 60 suggest "splenda daddies" (salt daddies who waste time), while scores above 85 suggest "whales" who are too controlling or dangerous due to extreme wealth disparity. 70 is the safe, fun, frictionless zone.
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This prevents the all-or-nothing mindset that derails most New Year’s resolutions.